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regisyl:

You can’t change what you can’t measure.
Okay, smart guy, what about measuring what you can’t change?

5 Bizarre Factors That Secretly Influence Your Opinions | Cracked.com 

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theatlantic:

The Psychology Behind Why Creative People Cluster 

A large body of literature shows that highly creative people - artists, scientists, entrepreneurs and the like - are highly likely to be open to new experiences. An earlier study by Rentfrow and his colleague Sam Gosling of the University of Texas, titled “The New Geography of Personality,” tracked the five major personality types across states. They found open-to-experience people were more likely to “attempt to escape the ennui experienced in small-town environments by relocating to metropolitan areas where their interests in cultures and needs for social contact and stimulation are more easily met.” Read more.

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Why I’m leaving this shithole.

ceavit:

Extrovert vs. Introvert
There is this common misconception about the natural behaviour of extroverts and introverts; extroverts are often times characterized as being lively and talkative, while introverts are naturally quiet and withdrawn.
This isn’t true. It’s correct that when you meet someone shy and quiet they will more likely be and introvert than an extrovert; however, this doesn’t mean that introverts are naturally shy, or that shy people always have to be introverts. On the contrary, introverts can be very talkative and discuss for hours on end about topics that interest them.

The actual definition of an Introvert is someone who draws energy from being alone with their thoughts, while Extroverts draw their energy from being with others.
Introverts are people can who draw energy from being alone with their thoughts. They enjoy, and sometimes even need, a deep conversation with people they trust; they don’t like small talk, or rather often don’t see the point in it. But after a while they will feel the need to be alone again, to recharge and sort out things on their own.
Extroverts on the other hand, are people who draw their energy from being with others. They can enjoy being alone with their ideas and dreams just as an introverts can enjoy being around people, yet after a while they will feel the need to interact with others to fill up their energy.

Ego Depletion « You Are Not So Smart 

Remember, no matter what the self-help books say, the research suggests that willpower isn’t a skill. If it was, there would be some consistency from one task to the next. Instead, every time you exert control over the giant system that is you, that control gets weaker. If you hold back laughter in a church or classroom, every subsequent silly notion is that much funnier until you run the risk of bursting into snorts. 

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Can You Call a 9-Year-Old a Psychopath?

By the time he turned 5, Michael had developed an uncanny ability to switch from full-blown anger to moments of pure rationality or calculated charm — a facility that Anne describes as deeply unsettling. “You never know when you’re going to see a proper emotion,” she said. She recalled one argument, over a homework assignment, when Michael shrieked and wept as she tried to reason with him. “I said: ‘Michael, remember the brainstorming we did yesterday? All you have to do is take your thoughts from that and turn them into sentences, and you’re done!’ He’s still screaming bloody murder, so I say, ‘Michael, I thought we brainstormed so we could avoid all this drama today.’ He stopped dead, in the middle of the screaming, turned to me and said in this flat, adult voice, ‘Well, you didn’t think that through very clearly then, did you?’ ” 

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The Madness of Pathologizing Grief

Somewhere in the room we never go in is an old copy of Where The Wild Things Are, on which Max—the Max who was my son, who died in 2008—taught himself to read before he was 3. I hadn’t thought about the book for years, but last week when I read the obituary of Maurice Sendak, memories of reading to my son, and my pride and amazement when I realized he was reading it by himself, came flooding back. These were accompanied by “intense yearning” for him, “intense sorrow and emotional pain,” and “intense anger over the loss.” Since I feel that way at least once every day, it appears I could be suffering from what the American Psychiatric Association may soon stamp as an “adjustment disorder.” See you at the clinic, Joan Didion. 

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Some formerly cohabiting couples with children keep romantic relationship 

“Research has shown that father involvement is beneficial for children, and that involvement is one benefit we could see if couples continue a romantic relationship even after they stop living together.”

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The Overjustification Effect 

The researchers discovered money is indeed a major factor in day-to-day happiness. No surprise there. You need to make a certain amount, on average, to be able to afford food, shelter, clothing, entertainment and the occasional Apple product, but what spun top hats around the country was their finding that beyond a certain point your happiness levels off. The happiness money offers doesn’t keep getting more and more potent – it plateaus. The research showed that a lack of money brings unhappiness, but an overabundance does not have the opposite effect. 

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RE: selling out 

(via You Are Not So Smart)

Are You Overusing Your Psychological Tools? 

Confession—I tend to lash out when I feel emotionally vulnerable. It’s hard for me to really express what I really feel, so the negative emotions usually take over. 

Most of the time, I find myself apologizing to those who really matter to me.

subrosaecadrillie:

Who would win in a fight between Schrödinger’s cat and Pavlov’s dog? My  money is on the cat. First off, it’s fighting in both the real world and  the spirit world. Second, each round starts with a bell.
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Not spirit world—it fights, and it doesn’t fight! Plus, the conditions would allow for Pavlov’s dog to be the observer, therefore the cat is actually doing one or the other. (Plus, there is no real way for science to prove a spirit world.) Pavlov’s dog may be useless, but it still wants to eat, doesn’t it? 
But I digress. 
This is awesome.

subrosaecadrillie:

Who would win in a fight between Schrödinger’s cat and Pavlov’s dog? My money is on the cat. First off, it’s fighting in both the real world and the spirit world. Second, each round starts with a bell.

Product Page ($16.99-$18.99)

Not spirit world—it fights, and it doesn’t fight! Plus, the conditions would allow for Pavlov’s dog to be the observer, therefore the cat is actually doing one or the other. (Plus, there is no real way for science to prove a spirit world.) Pavlov’s dog may be useless, but it still wants to eat, doesn’t it? 

But I digress. 

This is awesome.

So I’m taking a break before going out for stuff later. My room is still cluttered, but it’s generally less chaotic than it was a couple of days ago. After all those exams, I feel really lazy and stuff, kind of like how cough syrup makes me woozy. Yeah, it’s kind of that feeling. 

There are actually a couple of other things still on my plate before we leave for Beijing, but yeah, my motivation levels are pretty low right now, and all I feel like doing is curling up to sleep or loafing around, writing on the walls and floor, or anywhere, really. 

I don’t even feel like exploring today. I’ll save my exploration energy for China, then, I guess. It should be nice and fun there. And foodventures sound great there. I’m really excited—and that’s an understatement. At the very least, the trip should be interesting, and at the most… well, I’ll have to see. 

On another note, my siblings brought up the topic of love languages a few days ago, so I took the online test got this. Kind of interesting. It does cater to my sentimentalist mindset, so I would have to agree with it. When I don’t get to be with good friends very often, I start missing them like a phantom limb. 

And, well, there was another test, so I decided to take it. The Language of Apologies—and I apparently like sincere apologies with some assurance of improvement in the future. It’s kind of ironic, because I’m very stubborn and unstable when it comes to my own shortcomings. 

Or wait, how does instability fit in? 
I don’t know, but it makes sense. Somehow. 

In any case, China looms. It’ll be six weeks of fun-filled adventure with… over sixty other dudes my age. Err… my awkwardness will make for good humour. There’s a hopeful thought. I am really looking forward to it. 

But later, there is a party. How much I cringe at the thought of cheap party drinks. Shall I bring wine, perhaps? 

Oh, but finally, some quality time with my peers.

(Source: 5lovelanguages.com)

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